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I hope I Learn To Get Over Myself

Rant of the Day: I hope I Learn to Get Over Myself Have you ever felt trapped by the choices of others? It’s a common sensation that we might not be consciously aware of, being so influenced by external decisions that you lose sight of your path. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how easily we can morph into versions of ourselves that we don’t even like, " alter egos" psychologists call it.  I’ve reflected on how this subconscious shift can hinder my growth and relationships. My hope? To learn how to get over myself. The Weight of External Choices It’s fascinating how we can become so bound by the choices others make: friends, family, and society at large. We often find ourselves caught in a web of expectations that can lead us to question our own desires and values. “How come we’ve become a version of a person we don’t even like?” This question resonates deeply with me. The pressure to conform can be overwhelming, and in the process, we sometimes lose the essence of who we are...