Rant of the Day: I hope I Learn to Get Over Myself Have you ever felt trapped by the choices of others? It’s a common sensation that we might not be consciously aware of, being so influenced by external decisions that you lose sight of your path. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how easily we can morph into versions of ourselves that we don’t even like, " alter egos" psychologists call it. I’ve reflected on how this subconscious shift can hinder my growth and relationships. My hope? To learn how to get over myself. The Weight of External Choices It’s fascinating how we can become so bound by the choices others make: friends, family, and society at large. We often find ourselves caught in a web of expectations that can lead us to question our own desires and values. “How come we’ve become a version of a person we don’t even like?” This question resonates deeply with me. The pressure to conform can be overwhelming, and in the process, we sometimes lose the essence of who we are...
Rant of the Day: When Is Your Body the Right Size? Let’s talk about body positivity. At 24 years old and weighing 60 kg, I’m often told I have a good weight. Yet, something still doesn’t sit right with me. I look in the mirror and try on the latest trends, the crop tops, the low-waist trousers, and all I see is a body that doesn’t quite measure up to the standards I’ve set for myself. I want to effortlessly own these styles, but instead, I’m filled with doubts and rants . It’s hard not to compare. I see other girls my age with bodies that seem thicker, curvier, or leaner, and they exude confidence in ways that feel just out of reach for me. They wear the clothes I avoid, hold their heads high, and seem genuinely happy. And I wonder: why can’t I feel that same way? What’s stopping me from embracing my body, no matter its shape or size? Like so many others, I’ve gone down the familiar paths; morning runs, gym sessions, dieting, all to mold my body into some elusive “perfect” form. But ev...